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In a relationship but keep dreaming about old crush

User Profile: alohachar
alohachar December 27th, 2021

Hi! i’m in a relationship (2years+) and recently I’m dreaming about old crushes from elementary school and middle school. Now it’s taking over my mind and I don’t know what to think, I feel so guilty for thinking these thoughts and I don’t like if i’m trying to self sabotage, if i’m unhappy in my relationship or what. Please help.

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User Profile: sallymae3459
sallymae3459 December 27th, 2021

@alohachar. I think you will be fine since crushes come in go its probably nothing but if you are in a relationship just as long as you don't act on the urge it will be ok try journaling might help.

User Profile: Daydreamer47
Daydreamer47 December 27th, 2021

@alohachar I don't think there's anything wrong with being sentimental and reflecting on good memories from time to time. What was appealing about these connections that you might not have with your current partner? More romance or adventure? A close friendship with long talks? Nostalgic childhood things like a school dance or special trip together?