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User Profile: Apple241
Apple241 February 21st, 2023

Hello all!! I need your advice! So, I’ve been dating a guy for 5 months. Everything goes well with him, and we are so good together. But there’s something that stresses me and it’s that he keeps bringing his ex to the conversation from time to time. He explicitly told me why they broke up (2.5 years ago already, after 5 years of relationship) and that it’s completely over, but he still has for example stuff of her at his parents house from when they broke up and moved out of their common appartement (he told me he was too busy and didn’t have time to organise all that). I’ve met all his family and he is stressed to meet mine as « he has to get used to new in-laws and it’s not easy ». Also, his ex and me share the same second language and have many things in common…

I try not to worry as 2.5 years after a broke up seems for me a pretty reasonable time to move on, and also because he explicitly said that they broke up because they realised it was not going anywhere and he wanted sth different, more peaceful, more calm as he has with me now.

I need your advice with this please!! Thanks


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User Profile: burningmemori
burningmemori February 21st, 2023

@Apple241 personally i think its a bit odd. Because as you said he mentions her a lot, especially since you don’t ask. I think when a relationship starts, they shouldn’t be talking about stuff like that much. If you’re questioning it then it should be talked about i think!