Is it okay?
Is it okay if i and my bf don't talk for 3 to 4 days or a week straight due to some issues between us? Like should i see it in a positive way that it's necessary to take a break from all the non stop repetitive arguments for a moment of peace within which we may also realise how much we miss each other or should i break this "break" and talk with him? ( Ps-talking never solved anything between us properly and i have pampered him a hundred times and it doesn't matter if he is the one who was angry or it was me.. always i have to start talking like nothing unusual happened and i am sorry etc)
@weirdpotato3913
Thank you for sharing. I am glad to hear from you. One answer is that you do what works for you. That is probably what is most important, but do make sure that it works for you. You might also want to consider how you will feel about this long-term. Is this method of addressing conflict something that will be acceptable for you always?
In the end, that is up to you. If you decide that you need another way to end arguments, then you will need to work at it, somehow. I can't imagine feeling that talking never helps anything at all (ok, I can, but in my situation nothing helps anything … ). Please be careful about what is truly good for you. You do know best, but be honest with yourself.
I am glad you are here. Best wishes.