Love advice
There’s this guy I was in a talking stage with for months. Throughout the talking stage we made a promise that we’ll never talk to anyone else (romantically) and that eventually we do want to start dating. We took our time to know each other and he even made it clear that he was serious about me. He asked me to be his valentines and we even got each other something. On valentines day we finally dated. However after a month of dating I found out he got nudes from another girl (the day before we dated). I feel betrayed and I can’t trust him again. I always question what he does and i even had to ask his log in from some of his social media. He said he wouldn’t give up trying to regain my trust because he loves me. But no matter what I can’t feel good enough for him and i even constantly want to change how i look just to feel enough. I hated myself and I wish that i was all he needed.
Hello! I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time. I understand your disappointment to discover that the promise you and this guy made to each other has been broken. It would be useful to have a confrontation with this guy by asking him what led him to do this: it may not have anything to do with the feelings he has for you, keep in mind that you are not yet committed and he may have prioritized needs that you at that moment you could not satisfy. I also understand that he made you a promise and this may still seem like a betrayal, but it seems that he is really working hard and it might be worth a try to reconnect. The decision is up to you, I wish you the best of luck.