Marriage issues
So my husband and I have been together almost 8 years now. He has been working out of town for about 4. Long distance has been kinda hard on our relationship and sex life. Because ive been alone for so long, i now have no sex drive. Ive talked to doctors about this issue and they all say its stress.
About 8 months ago we talked about possibly having a open marriage. It is something he was always kind of interested in, seeing me with someone else. He think itll make us closer and help my issues. At first I was all for it. Ive tried to meet up with people multiple times, but it never ends up working out.
I am now frustrated with this and not sure if I even want to do this anymore. But I am not sure if i can tell my husband how i feel because it will crush him. He is so passionate about this. I feel as if our marriage wont last. I am not sure what to do at this point.
@autumn2323
Marriage problems are very common, this could happen to anyone. This marriage could end up badly, but do not forget what's the reason why you guys married. This is very important, just imagine life without him. This could be much worse because he is the person you love, and losing a person you love is very very hard. I recommend talking to him more about what you think to him, so this problem could be solved a better way. I think that the best way is to move back to each other, it's ok to leave things behind for the person you love. You can start with a break from your work and go back for a small while. You can give him a surprise and see what's his reaction is, if it is not what you wanted to see, I don't think he is the one. This marriage cannot last forever if you guys have an open marriage, that is just wrong. A happily married couple should stay together forever.
