My fiancé cheated…
My fiancé and I have been together for going on 3 years now. She cheated once which caused us to separate for 6 months. We talked about the issues and gave it another try. Soon enough we were engaged and everything was fantastic. Then I find out she was sneaking around with a guy at her work. She believes it’s possible to love more than one person whereas I have my skepticisms.
I am trying like *** to let this go (for better or worse) and it’s splitting me to the bone. I love her and her company on one hand, but on the other I am terrified of getting hurt again and just want to stop everything.
Any advice would be great.
Do not go through with a wedding until you have sat clear boundaries and they have been accepted and adhered to.
This isn’t as much about a right or wrong way to have and seek love as it is an issue of making a choice to either be monogamous or not.
Either you learn to like having brother husbands or find someone else. Some people recommends therapy. In my opinion, this will extend the inevitable hurt if you are not ok with not having an exclusive relationship.
I would just end it you will probably keep getting hurt in the end . She sounds like a cheater