My girlfriend cheated on me and I’m trying to make things work
My girlfriend cheated on me with some guy at some party she said she was intoxicated, so I thought I should forgive her because I still love her. Lately it’s been getting to me and it’s something that’s really hard for me to talk about, so I’m going to make this short. If anyone has tips on how to let go and keep the past behind me or just full on know the “cure” please help me. I can’t eat I can’t sleep I lost a ton of weight, a day doesn’t go by when I don’t think of that horrible day. Even then writing this with tears running through my eyes the pain it brings to my self being makes me want to just punch a hole straight through the other side of the wall. So if anyone please has answers… help.
First, how long have you been in a relationship with her? Second, could you still be with her, forgive her and move on? Or will it cause you to not trust her anymore?
Third, do not lose sleep over her or not eat. You’ll have health issues and you don’t want to do that over a girl, no way. So, take a deep breath and remember that you are better than this. Treat yourself kind. Overall, talk to her and tell her what you expect from this relationship and set boundaries. Don’t let her walk over you. Remember, there are other fish in the sea.
