Need advice please
I have been in a relationship for 3 years now, and it was going amazingly. However, a week or so ago I had a dream about my ex and since then I can’t stop thinking about them. I readded them on social media and they accepted, and now I am struggling because I don’t know what I want and I think it’s very unfair for my current relationship. This ex was a really good friend of mine for years and I definitely do miss being friends. I don’t know what to do. We never really had closure when we split either, so I’m thinking instead of wanting to be back together I just want to talk about it? I don’t want to start up drama where it’s unnecessary but it is eating away at me and I don’t know why. I want so badly to just forget it and move on, at least I think I do. Any thoughts?
sounds tough im sorry
Honestly? That's your call. You are the one the knows if you will be able to forget without closure. On the other hand, if you contact him I would set very clear boundaries at the beginning on why you contact him.