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Need advice please

User Profile: SeekingSolace1999
SeekingSolace1999 June 10th, 2021

I have been in a relationship for 3 years now, and it was going amazingly. However, a week or so ago I had a dream about my ex and since then I can’t stop thinking about them. I readded them on social media and they accepted, and now I am struggling because I don’t know what I want and I think it’s very unfair for my current relationship. This ex was a really good friend of mine for years and I definitely do miss being friends. I don’t know what to do. We never really had closure when we split either, so I’m thinking instead of wanting to be back together I just want to talk about it? I don’t want to start up drama where it’s unnecessary but it is eating away at me and I don’t know why. I want so badly to just forget it and move on, at least I think I do. Any thoughts?

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User Profile: StMary
StMary June 17th, 2021

sounds tough im sorry

User Profile: CrunchyCarCrash
CrunchyCarCrash July 15th, 2021

Honestly? That's your call. You are the one the knows if you will be able to forget without closure. On the other hand, if you contact him I would set very clear boundaries at the beginning on why you contact him.