New dating anxiety
I started seeing a guy two months ago. We talk everyday,
he's kind of me, we go on dates and spend time together.
But we had a talk the other day and he said he's not sure
if he can handle a serious relationship at the moment
because of how stretched thin he is with work, friends etc
and doesn't want to begin something like that. He still
wants to keep dating each other and says things could
change if he had more time in the next few months. The
uncertainty of your relationship because it's not very
secure gives me a massive amount of anxiety and makes
me feel very depressed. Some days I can't get out of bed
and end up sleeping the whole day and night to try to
avoid the feelings. I don't know how to stop this anxiety
because we still are in somewhat early days and I should
just relax and let things happen naturally, but I don't
know why I feel so anxious. This happens once I start
dating anyone for more than a month and a half. I just
want to feel happy and enjoy the present moment, but
these feelings make it hard to even want to move
sometimes.
@emotionalCranberry6292 So very sorry to hear this.
Maybe try talking to him, and let him know how you feel.
I hope this is helpful.