Outside perspective please...
Can someone help me understand what's going on in this conversation? Did I say something wrong? I'm beyond confused and I'm just so tired of having this argument. My bf says I NEVER listen to him but I try so hard to understand how he's feeling about things but it never makes ANY sense to me. Am I a bad person for not validating emotions that he says I caused but he can't tell me exactly what I did to even make him feel that way?? This has been a constant problem in our relationship and I've never had an issue like this with anyone else because I'm extremely empathetic and I've always been told I'm an amazing listener so I just don't understand......
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I mean, just based on the context in those screenshots... I don't get it either. 😕
Kinda sounds like he's overly sensitive to not being listened to. To the point that if you deviate from instructions he gave, he feels like you just ignore everything that comes out of his mouth or something.
The fact that he can't give concrete examples of times you didn't listen to him kinda indicates to me that it's more an issue on his end than something you're doing.
But it's hard to really say based on one conversation.
Also, have you considered using some other app besides Snapchat to communicate? Clearly he also takes issue with you saving messages.
That's weird that he says ozone machine since my ex used an ozone to get rid of bugs in his garage since he was afraid of spiders. My ex also told me that I never listened to him which was strange because I also wanted him to give me examples which he never gave. I realized that it wasn't just me and that he was just a big narcissist who had his own issues with past gf's and was projecting onto me. Stand up for yourself here and don't put up with this type of behavior from him. If you are messaging someone with the initials DA than run. That guy messed me up mentally and emotionally which is why I'm on 7 cups to begin with.
