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Past relationship insecurities

User Profile: Piglet89
Piglet89 April 11th, 2022

How do I let go of past relationship insecurities? Every relationship I’ve had I’ve been cheated on, so I assume my current relationship of 3 years will be the same, even though he’s given me no reason to. I go looking for things to give myself some kind of reassurance that I’m right. It’s causing issues in my relationship and I don’t want to lose this one

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User Profile: funnyLion1148
funnyLion1148 April 11th, 2022

Love yourself is the best way to keep moving on. You are blessed and worth it. Keep fighting. I know you can do it.😊😇

User Profile: Lifeonmars787
Lifeonmars787 April 11th, 2022


Hi, I hope you are well!

It is understandable to be afraid after your past relationship experiences, but at the same time this is an issue worthy of attention. It seems like this relationship is going really well and the only real problem is your insecurity. Betrayal is hard to overcome but I think it helps to keep in mind that it has nothing to do with you, but with the person standing by your side for failing to be honest and fair with you. Unfortunately, relationships are risky and therefore you will suffer, but know that returning to trust and being able to enjoy your relationship is absolutely possible, perhaps with the help of a listener or a therapist if necessary. Take care!