Relationship stuff
So I and my girlfriend are having communication issues. I just don't know what to do. We are in long distance relationship. So when I were sending messages first it felt like she doesn't really wanna talk and now for the last month she was the one who sent messages first. Now she's blaming me for that and are thinking that I don't care. I do care and I love her but now I'm confused because we'll first of all because I really thought that she's already tired from me and my talking and don't wanna talk because her response was always in a one word about literally everything I said but now she's hurt because I am not talking that much and writing her first. So I don't know what to even do now. Am I still the to blame for all of this? Or should I need to apologize? I'm struggling with that totally.
i’ve personally never been in a romantic relationship but (i think) your best option is to be honest with her. if you explain how she wasn’t giving any proper attention and you got the wrong message, most likely she’ll understand. i also recommend apologizing, but if she doesn’t apologize back that’s a red flag. neither of you are to blame, it seems you both struggle with the same thing. i really hope this helps, good luck with your relationship!
