Scared of loosing my bf
I feel like I’m going to lose my boyfriend, he’s told me I’m as dry to talk to as a cardboard and I’m just scared by the fact I might lose him because of my own stupidity, I don’t really know what to ask for more than maybe know if anyone has tips onto how to become more interesting to talk to and more supportive and loving, any tips are appreciated andI can provide more context to what’s happened in our relationship
@Neptunianmoon That is a huge question; even a therapist can't help you more clearly. Take it easy, https://www.7cups.com/self-help/; you can try to learn all & see.
Hello! One, I’m going to say that’s pretty rude to say to you because you both clearly had to talk before actually getting together. So were you dry to talk to back then when he was trying? lol but besides that, you should never think about “how can I become more interesting” for someone. They should be with you because they like or love you the way you are. Maybe you both have different love languages. If you’re having to work on trying to be someone different than who you truly are, maybe they’re not the right person for you.. I know it hurts to hear that and it would suck to break up but trying to keep him satisfied by losing yourself is just not going to work. I think there is someone out there who will appreciate everything about you and not try to mold you into something you’re not. You will find your true person!❤️
