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Scared to love?

User Profile: IvorySugarIceCream
IvorySugarIceCream March 7th, 2021

I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and we've been saying love yous and such for a while now. However whenever we get into an argument/disagreement I dont say I love you after. This bothers my bf as he says it so easily. Also I am constantly considering the future and marriage possibilities. It often worries me when little things bother me because it will grow to be a bigger problem later (i assume). My bf doesn't think this way and doesn't think this will be that big of an issue and that I'm just making excuses to find ways to make this not work. He thinks im scared of loving him? I think it has more to do with making sure I'm not making the wrong choice with him and want to consider everything? Am I wrong to do this? Bf (33) me (23)

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User Profile: sally2345986
sally2345986 March 8th, 2021

@IvorySugarIceCream 6 month's isn't a long time to date someone still fairly new give it time maybe

User Profile: GrayNightingale
GrayNightingale May 6th, 2021

@IvorySugarIceCream

Frequent arguments and disagreements suggest personality clash dynamics. WHY at that point entertain a marriage, you'll be lucky just to keep a basic bf/gf relationship going at that point.

User Profile: bernardand
bernardand May 15th, 2021

Love is such an amazing thing to experience. I had the same feeling as you when I met my current girlfriend on the online dating platform. To be honest, I have never thought that such sites are really working till I read the tinder dating reviews. Well, I believe that your bf should just give you some time to think. You should stay together, spend time together and you will understand what you feel, as I think