Stressed and tired...
Kyaa...my girlfriend [19] and me [18] are in a long distance relationship. Despite this we share all the same friends, and I'm so nervous to tell her that I don't feel in love with her anymore. I love her! Just not in that way.
She's really sweet to me, but overall she can be a jerk. She insults people and lashes out. I've told her to calm down but she won't. She drinks a lot [Europe] and I have to babysit her over call, I've been called slurs and curses several times. [I'm an Asian-Hispanic woman], and other things. I feel indebted to her, but I cannot fix her attitude, and when I first met her she was great. But I haven't even gone to college yet [Senior], and she treats me like her therapist. She often yells at me and makes fun of my accent, it's quite visible but I didn't think it bothered her that much. I don't know how to end this, because I don't want to hurt her, but I just cant anymore.
@AidenMicahz47
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I'm sorry you are going through this.
You sound like a lovely person.
Relationships should be fun, loving, respectful, uplifting, bring out the best in each other.
No one should be laughing at you.
Or insulting you.
It is hard but you cannot change someone else.
You need to focus on you and on your future.
You need to be honest, day, you don't want this anymore, and stay strong and not be manipulated into staying in a relationship that is bringing you no joy!
💜💕