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User Profile: Kenzie2604
Kenzie2604 May 24th, 2021

My relationship has gotten extremely toxic. Its hurting me more than him, and he said our relationship was pointless along with a lot of other harsh things. He wants to end it but he doesnt know if its the right choice. I think its time i end things but i don't know how because i love him and last time I tried he guilted me into staying and he was very angry and started dating a girl an hour after I said I needed a break, then made her text me pictures of them. I don't know how to leave because i love him but I'm hurting and he doesnt care.

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User Profile: Snowwolf123
Snowwolf123 May 25th, 2021

If he doesn't care that you are hurting, then it is time to end the relationship. Love is when you care about someone else's needs more than your own. He obviously doesnt love you and you need to accept that. If the relationship goes on, you will just continue to get hurt. Break it off, and do not let him guilt you into staying. Make sure you have a support system in place and then rip the band aid.

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User Profile: Kenzie2604
Kenzie2604 OP May 25th, 2021

I really don't have anyone though. I know he doesnt care and that hurts a lot too. Its all just so painful. Ive become dependent on him and I don't know how to end things because im scared that maybe it is my fault or in being irrational.

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User Profile: Snowwolf123
Snowwolf123 May 25th, 2021

You have this app. Use it. Get a listener, tell them all of your stuff, then break things off with him and talk with the listener again. I cant control what you do, but remember this-breaking up with him will most likely give you less pain in the long run.

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User Profile: Kenzie2604
Kenzie2604 OP May 25th, 2021

Alright. Thank you

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