Unnecessary fights?
We had a fight, because one of us assumes the other of saying something, but the other one is not remembering it or denying it. Instead of just stop, because we will not be able to figure it out. We have so many unnecessary fights. It's frustrating, especially when he starts to be pissed.
@indigoOrange9898
I can understand that. In my relationship, we also used to fight like this and many times it was stemming from a misunderstanding of what the other was saying. If the other is not remembering it maybe it would be helpful to address it as soon as it happens and try to solve it (or just talk through it so you both feel closure) so you do not have to discuss it again. One thing that could be helpful as well might be to recognize when the fight starts to be about something like this and try to stop. There are usually patterns or triggers that can help you prevent the fight. These can be subtle - such as being hungry, having a bad day...
