What can I do to fix this
I have been in a committed relationship now for about 3 months and we both are serious about eachother. Before I got any further into the relationship i thought that i should come clean about talking to someone else and going on a date with them after my girlfriend and I went on our first date, but before we were official. I did lie to her before and said that I wasnt talking to anyone at the same time as her and I think that hurt her the most. I feel like I could have done something much worse, but she doesn't trust me now and I don't know how to fix that. What should I do?
@warmheartedChestnut9492 I feel like going on a first date with someone else before you were official is quite a normal part of modern dating, like you were at the very beginning and were meeting a bunch of new people to see where things would go. You felt most connected to your gf and other people didn't work out. I feel like a mature secure person will understand that's how dating works. If she is still upset, it may require a larger conversation about how she can be more secure in herself and your relationship.
Always try to be honest with her and apologize to her. If you are honest with her thst means she knows you care about her snd the relationship. It could take some time to get her trust back. Don't overthink too much about it. As long as your honest to her next time your relationship with her will grow stronger.
