What qualities men & women look for in a date?
What do you think are attractive qualities in a man or a woman?
What would make both genders stand out in a dating world?
What are the things you should or shouldn't do when you meet your date?
What does a good date or bad date look like?
You must have had some dating experience in your life, right? Don't we all?
We can't wait to hear what you have to say. :-)
@KatLis123 whatever you do don't talk about your past relationships on a date don't talk about politics listen and let the person talk when its their turn to talk
@sally2345986
I agree with you! Good points Sally! Thank you 
1. Attractive qualities for a man are ; kindness, being a gentleman, having a plan for career, stability, passionate, athletic, understanding, great listener, communication is on point. Impeccable. I can go on and on haha but those are my top! 2. Being super kind and compassionate. Non judgemental 3. Disagreeing with what they are saying on the first date. Taking a phone call. Being rude to other people just to impress.who being too big ! 4. A good date is a gentleman open doors, paying for the date, picking you up and dropping you off. Opens the car door for you. Takes you to have some food. Great convo of knowing each other hobbies and characteristics. Then texting all day the next day. Lol
**** EGO being too big ***** correction. Lol
This is an interesting thread I'd be happy to join! The attractive qualities, for me, in a man are humble, funny, confident, a good listener, compassionate, excited to try new things (all the things that come from this guy who friendZONED meeee) ....soooo I do believe these are attractive qualities for a woman as well. Being compassionate enough to care about another person, but also having that confidence in one's self is super super attractive and important. Being excited to agree to dates that are "outside the box" are so attractive. So that's what makes people stand out. To hear them say yes, I'll do it because I want to and also because you sound so excited about it, and I love seeing you excited! The things not to do on a date....honestlyyyy I love opening up about old trauma tho...but so far it hasn't worked in my favor. I talk about the rejection I face. Probably not a good look lol but yeah I would say being rude to others, like waiters, or giving a stink eye to loud people, can just be off putting to me. Just let them be. And focus on me~ hmm if they're on their phone, it's fine as long as I can be included and see what he's doing. I think it's attractive to include me with his friends, etc.
Funny everyone seems to ignore physical attraction, as if they are ashamed to admit they begin the acceptance process with that