What should I do
My boyfriend we were on FaceTime and I knew he was with his friends I don’t mind that because it’s no issue shouldn’t be one anyways but while I’m on ft I realize there’s a girl with them and he sends me a shirtless pic in the car but keep in mind there’s another girl with them I don’t want to overreact but how should I react what should I do by the way apparently they go way back
@Kittysizzlez223
Hi Kitty :) Firstly, what I would be right in saying that you might be feeling insecure? If so, that's perfectly understandable. A lot of us feel insecure when we see our boyfriend/girlfriend hang out with someone of the opposite sex without any context or when we've been kept out of the loop.
While we're not in a position to advise you since you know your situation the best, what I would say based on personal experience is that honest communication is really important to making any relationship work.
Have you tried talking to your boyfriend about how this situation has made you feel? Sometimes, until we talk about something and get clear answers, our minds concoct all sorts of stories that simply magnify our fears and insecurities when the reality is actually not as bad.
It may also help to think about what exactly about this situation made you feel uncomfortable. Being able to identify that could provide you some clarity on what changes you need to make moving forward, both personally and with regards to your relationship.
Hope this helps!
