What to do
So there’s this girl at work that I like a lot, I asked her out a couple of times and I had a feeling she liked me as well, however when I told her that i liked her, she told me that she has a boyfriend (which I know now it’s true), she wants us to remain friends and even invited me to a friends birthday party, but to be honest the thought of being with her but not be able to be with her breaks my heart. The fact that this other guy has a lot more in common with her than me makes it even worse.
@helpfulDog4990,
I hear you.
It happens that you have some sort of crush on someone and it turns out to be one way traffic.
Every time you start thinking of her, start breathing in, and out, slowly, without putting effort in it. Focus on breathing. Keep slowly breathing in and out, until you feel more relaxed.
Then, ask your self, your true self, if there is any thing you can do about the situation.
The answer will tell you what to do.
Take care.