Who is in the wrong ?
who is this? She looked familiar
Roddrick’s wife
I don’t think your doing anything and I trust you. It’s me. I feel ugly and lazy and no good
Will you stop please.
Then do something about it. You complain about how you feel but you never do anything about it. Did you work at all this morning?
No I didn’t I woke up 15 minutes before you
And I am doing something
Wyd
Just sitting around playing on my phone
Don’t talk to me like I’m some loser
What are you talking about?
message that said Will you please Stop and the other one saying I complain about my feelings and don’t do anything about it. Like really?
I’m opening up and sharing my feelings and I get treated like some loser
Wow, your unbelievable. Whatever Gladys. I’m not arguing with you today. Will you be home soon? I need to go to work
Omg.
Why am I unbelievable? Yea I’ll be home soon
So what’s was the problem?
I don’t have a problem. I didn’t say anything wrong. You said something messed up to me. So what’s your problem?
I wasn’t arguing with you at all. You got all weird after I saw your pretty ex-wife. Then you said nothing about keeping Sara Lind as a friend even though you had feelings for her. Then you started talking Down to me like I’m crazy. I ment to say please don’t talk to “me” like I’m some looser. But I accidentally wrote “Please don’t act like a looser. “
Omg. First of all please explain how I got weird after you mentioned Tiffany. That is such BS. I forgot about her 5 seconds after you mentioned her. You seeing her didn’t and doesn’t bother me in the least little bit. Stop pretending like things are different than what they are.
I didn’t even realize I was still friends with Sara. I only use it to watch videos. I’m seconds away from deleting the g app just so I can avoid this you have started doing again. The “who is she, who is she, who is she?” That gets so damn annoying. And I didn’t down talk you one bit. I mentioned the fact that you keep complaining about how you feel yet you don’t do anything to change it. That’s your choice not mine. Pointing it out is not talking to you like your a loser.
If you want to talk about this then you should have said something when you got home. I hate how you always wait till I leave and try to work then you want to have these conversations via text. If you want to talk about it then I will stop work and come home or we can wait till tonight
After the picture of Roddrick’s wife you said Gladys please stop.
Oh excuse me for being pathetic and insecure. There wasn’t a problem until you started acting like your better than me. Ok babe, geez I’m not crazy or pathetic. I’ve been feeling insecure after seeing the long sleeve shirt you wore when you record yourself fucking someone else 🤷🏻♀️
Oh sorry maybe you got weird about Roddrick’s wife not Tiffany. Either way why can’t I ask? Geez sensitive much?
Yea that must be it. I’m just so sensitive. Don’t you ever get tired of having the same conversations???
Whatever Gladys. Pretend this is all me and my fault if you want. Or you can just ignore it and maybe it will just go away on its own right? Pretend all you do is ask me about other females. Just keep pretending, it’s easier that way right? Or I guess if I don’t react how you want you will just go find another guy to listen to you right?
wow
Edited by @CheeryMango to remove obscene language
@ azGoddess ,
who is in the wrong?
A relationship is not a competition.
So that is where you are taking your 1st wrong turn.
Second, your responses are not quite constructive, that is where you take a 2nd wrong turn.
I would do some serious self reflection if I were you.
@azGoddess I'm a little confused about who is who but it seems like some of the communication is very reactionary which is what leads to things turning into a fight instead of a conversation that can be resolved. Saying things like "This is BS. You're unbelievable" just end up escalating things. Maybe instead try using "I statements" where you express how you feel but also try to acknowledge how your partner is feeling and where they are coming from.
For example, I also have a friend who struggles with feeling insecure about how she looks, and it does get on my nerves, but I would say something like "I am sorry you are struggling with this and want you to feel good about how you look, but sometimes I feel tired and irritated when I have to reassure you, because I had a long day."