Why am I so mean?
I (21F) have been dating this person (21F) for a few months now. Everything seems good but at some point (when everything is good) I say something mean or completely inappropriate for no good reason and I can’t even explain it to myself. I don’t know why I say those things and when they’re said I can’t do anything but apologize. I feel like I’m being toxic and I don’t even know what to do or how to fix stuff. I really care about her…
Hey Powerful, you seem really concerned about this issue, I can't say much except that it's great that you're trying to change for the better, with enough effort, you can definitely make that positive change. You might want to explore what triggers you perhaps? There's probably a reason behind this. And some counselling or therapy might be good if you'd like to consider it, to guide you to finding out the reason you sometimes say these thing. I wish you good luck.