feeling worthless
my boyfriend is really smart and educated. He always wants me to be the best version of myself, which I appreciate and I know that I can always do more than I'm doing rn. But everytime I fail or simply ask something "stupid" he treats me differently. Like I'm so dumb and that I should feel bad about it. It's sad and kinda taking away my energy. A whole bunch of other people find me very passionate and smart. But somehow I feel like my boyfriend loses interest if I'm struggling or having problems that I cry about.
@indigoOrange9898
Hey there, I want to let you know that I read your post. After reading your post, I want to tell you that "You are smart." There is nothing to doubt: You are intelligent. To be honest, I don't know what I can say to make you feel better about your relationship. I think everyone asks dumb questions, and everyone has something they struggle with. There is one thing that my friend always tells me "There is no dumb question."I think the most important goal in life is to be happy. Sometimes, when I cannot decide what to do and are confused, I ask myself if I am happy. If I am not, that probably means that I may need to change something. But, I am not changing for somebody else, I change for myself. Please keep in mind that You Are Smart and you don't need to change for someone.
