relationship advice

me and my bf have been dating for 6 months, we’re LDR. we started from texting on *** as onl friends and started liking each other because we both like a kpop bang. he came to like me because im nice, sweet and loyal. we decided to date because we both have the same ideal relationship which is security and loyalty.

during the relationship, we had a few conversations where we had to decide whether we should breakup or not. he said he doesn’t know why he doesn’t feel sexually attracted to me, and intimacy with me feel weird. he sees me as a cute innocent little girl, or in fact his cute pet which he often called me “my munchkin”. he cuddles me, pat me and gives me smooches. he said he can’t makeout or have sex with me because he feels guilty. he doesn’t see me as girls but rather an innocent girl. he feels like he tainted my life.

he doesn’t know if he loves me as a person or because i treat him really nice, being kind to him, care about him, and make him feel secure. he said he feel the most comfortable and relaxed when he’s w me. he dated 3 girls before and all of those relationships ended terribly. his close friends told me this is the first time he experience a healthy relationship without doubting, yelling, or stressing him out.

he thinks he keeps me with him is so selfish of him. im a really nice, and sweet gf which he thinks i deserve someone who would give their all to me. he said i deserve to get his all yet he can’t give you all of him completely ( which is the sexual intimacy thing)

when we talking about this and deciding the breakup. he was really distressed and cried. he said he doesn’t want to lose someone important to him, and he gets sad when im sad. he doesn’t to make me to get hurt.

hes confused about his feelings and doesnt know if he loves me or not. he said he never feel nervous around me. the only time he got excited was when i first came to visit him. he feels happy when we spend time together.

he said he adore me and care about me a lot, but he doesn’t know if he loves me romantically. hes uncertain about his feelings to me.

idk what to do, i really love him. i love him because he is a really nice person, hes kind and respectful. hes very soft and gentle with me. hes always there for me whenever i have a hard time. hes patient with me and i feel really safe around him.

we’re still talking and i have to make a decision whether to leave or stay.