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too soon for exclusivity?

User Profile: xcj17
xcj17 November 8th, 2021

I’ve been talking to this guy (25/m) everyday for about a month now, and I’ve already met his roommate and stayed the night at his place a couple of times already. He says he enjoys hanging out with me and has already asked to go on another date this week. I feel like I want to talk about possibly being exclusive or seeing where he kind of stands with us, but I’m afraid if I bring it up he’ll think I’m trying to move too fast. We’ve had meaningful conversations and we always are talking non stop and from what I can tell, we enjoy each other’s presence. I’m not used to this online dating and have already been out on quite a few dates, but I really like this guy and would prefer to know him exclusively. Would this be considered moving too fast?

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User Profile: sereneSunset26
sereneSunset26 November 9th, 2021

@xcj17

For me, I feel like a month would be enough time in this scenario to ask someone to be potentially exclusive. However, I also feel that this is where communication comes in (as you know). Being straight-foward about it and honest with your feelings may be the way to go, but as it should be, it's totally your call :)