A Hurt Friend

A friend of mine, whom I consider my sister because of how close we are, the things we tell one another, etc. A lot of people like to tell us were bound at the hip and nothing can come between us.

Recently her mental state has be deteriorating, and mine has as well. Hers is the stresses of life, her long-distance relationship, things of that nature.

I tend to put my feelings aside to help her because I care for her and thats the type of person I am which is definetly seen as a fault by many. But as of recent its been getting really bad with her, shell get into bad moods and reseed into herself.

I know what to do for the most part to get her out of the moods, which normally is to call her boyfriend and tell him shes gotten bad and maybe he should call her (hes abroad and she lies to him a lot on how shes feeling to avoid the topics all together). The other things is to keep her mind off it, send her internet memes to make her smile, send her new music to listen too etc.

But as of recent, its gotten to the point where nothing is working and her response to me whenever I try and talk and tell her positive things is its whatever. Which is a common response for her but its starting to get to me, because I try so hard to make sure shes okay and she doesnt try at all to help herself. And I dont want to stop but its coming to the point where I dont think I can do it anymore.