Am I asking too much?
Some back story; Ive been friends with this guy for 2 years now and hes become somewhat of my best friend. But recently when I text him hes either Been busy, cleaning, playing video games, or asleep. And all Ive asked is that he respond when he gets a messege from me when he can rather then just leave me on read. And Ive always been understanding about why he hasnt responded.
is that asking too much?
@Lyra12
I don't think you're asking too much. Maybe let your friend know that you feel you're being ignored.
@indigoKiwi378
I accidentally pressed enter, what I was going to say is that I agree, you should tell your friend how you feel about them not responding to your messages, maybe they don't know that you are feeling a bit left out.
@Hardwired I always act like it doesn
@indigoKiwi378 I have before and he just thinks Im overreacting probs because I always mention that he talks to other people a lot more than me (or what I think is a lot more) and always say that I am.
@Lyra12 Maybe they're being genuine and they are pretty busy, and they don't know that you are feeling this way, like IndigoKiwi said, you should let them know how you feel about the situation.
@Lyra12
@Lyra12
My next step would probably be making it clearier. Saying, "hey I know you're busy a lot, but I need time with you too. I need you in my life." Maybe try asking if they are goign through some things. Just don't give up on them.
@indigoKiwi378 you
@Lyra12
Just make sure you're in a better mood when you do it. Make sure things are very calm and clear. You might want to do it when you know you have time where you're not going to be bothered by anyone or anything
