Am I really that weird?
I'm going to be very honest. I don't have a lot of close friends IRL. I've been deeply hurt in the past by those who I thought were my Bestfriend's and I've been ghosted as the younger generation says by others so I can very easily count my friends on on hand. My sister in laws think I'm weird bc I don't exactly wanna go out one on one with the close few I have bc they are all into drinking and partying, I mean I like to party but not alone bc quite frankly as close as they are they STILL don't get me and often unintentionally judge me. I mean if my dh is coming along heck yea but like a girls night out? No thank you. Does this make me weird? Is something wrong with me?
@LPyMP Does it matter if u r a weird person ? Why so worried about it ? I and my best friend are a weird person...
People will said u or us weird since we didn't do as the normal people in your place do.. The problem was not everything that is normal is a good thing since usually sociaty change along with the market demands.. Friendships style, dating style and ect was following the demand of the market.. just like business.. They come and go, so sure... if u r older and not doing things like people in your age in your place u will be called weird but that doesn't always means bad..
@GhostBunnywhite
you rock ghost bunny. I guess my sisters and sisters in law just think im friendless which I'm not. I just don't understand the whole girls night out when I work and my husband works and what our kids get to hang out with some babysitter bc mom and dad wanna feel kid free again? Yea nope. I'd rather spend my free time making memories with my kids that I didn't have growing up.
@LPyMP I also hate partying and drinking... My best friends too and many are like that too, just go out and find other place or community that have same hobby or desire same like u.. Everyone is weird since not everyone can fit in all places.. u r normal in another place but maybe weird in your place since what u do is uncommon for your sister.. but if u go out and bring ur sister to your community then she will be called weird too since she doesn't like or do things like what your community do..
Easy man, just don't think too much about people words, unless, u r really giving a bad impact in your life and everyone around u..