Boyfriend's female friends..
My Boyfriend has 3 female friends that dislike me to the point they told him to leave me. I have not been mean or nasty d'o these girls. I have been nothing but nice and inviting to them. He broke up with me twice and we have only been together for 6 months. I took him back both times. But I am at a crossroads right now. Should I stay or should I go?
He says that things are serious between him and I and that he loves me and wants to get married in 2018!
But I do not want to waste my time with him if he is just going to leave me again. My issue I have with these girls is they they purposely exclude me from things just to put a wedge between my bf and I. He stopped talking to them for a few weeks and just focused on us and it was amazing. Then all of a sudden he goes to their house and hangs out with them and gets drunk with them after he said he was not going to do anything with them again.
I feel crushed about this because he said he stopped talking to them because he loves me and he did not want to see me hurt. But then he goes hang out with them and gets drunk. This feels like a deal breaker to me.
He knows exactly how I feel about everything.
@OctoberGrey1031
Hey, October! :) First off, Id like to say kudos for staying strong and faithful during this hard time.. Im sure its not easy especially when you have no idea why his friends dislike you.
Have you ever tried straight out asking why theyre mean to you? It can sometimes help bring you clarity to the situation instead of continuously beating around the bush.
Without knowing what the problem is, theres no way to fix it.
Have you consider hanging out with him some days and then allowing him to go with the girls but with some guy friends too (if youre worried about him cheating)? So you could alternate between who sees him and when? I know that might sound like a pain but sometimes when people get into relationships they forget all about their friends to spend time on their significant other. That might be why theyre irritated with you because he completely dropped them for a couple weeks (probably without an explanation as to why he did that in the first place).
You wont know for sure though unless you ask.
As for the fact that you two have been together for six months and hes already talking about marriage, thats a big red flag to me unless youve known each other for years prior to.. Its not my place to say anything other than that tiny comment because youre wondering if you should stay together with him or not. Thats completely up to you but please be leery if you stay with him.. You two have split up twice already so what will happen if you get married in two years and are still having fights like this?
Anyways, thats all Ill say for now! I hope I helped you in some way and I just stress you ask what their deal is. Take care & feel free to reach out to me if youd ever like to chat! 
