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User Profile: Mirona
Mirona September 29th, 2014

My classmates think I am a traitor(I considered them my friends and I had soo much trust in them) we have a whatsapp group and there we discuss many things. On the profile picture they put a picture of a girl from our class (she is hipocrtie,gelous and a liar).that girl found out about the picture and she refused to tell us who told her but she said it was someone from de group. They started to argue and a girl said:sure mirona(me) told you,there isn't somebody else who would have told you(I transferred this year in this class and I tough I have friends and they trust me and they like me)..i am a mess right now,always sad...what is wrong with me?!what would you do in my place?They are ignoring me,talking behind by back,laughting at me in classes and refuse to talk to me...we were once friends,im sick of staying alone in a corner and read,what would you do?

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User Profile: exampligratia
exampligratia September 29th, 2014

Hey, this might not be what you want to hear but I think you're better off without your friends. My advice is to ditch themcoswell, they seemed to ditch you quite fast.

I have rules that I live by and your friends have broken my rule #3 which is "don't believe what you're told. double check"

Your "friends" just believed her without any pause or fact checking. If they're willing to throw you off like that then they're not people you want to be able to count on.

Secondly, even if that girl is as bad as you say, you shouldn't go around her back parodying her. you and your friends are actually no better than her in this case. Just ignore her and get some new friends..,betterfriends.

perhaps other members and listeners have different advice for you. take it away guys.

User Profile: arsh02
arsh02 September 29th, 2014

Can u try not to b affected by their behaviour? b strong and believe in urself. if they say negative things u can just ignore them and show it doesn't bother u. Eventually they will b tired of bothering u and seeing that it doesn't produce any effect on u they may leave u alone. Best of luck. I m hopefull that u will soon find friends who deserve u and keep u happy