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Divided heart and mind

January 23rd, 2018

I have feelings for my friend. My best friend is in love with him...

My mind wants to move on from him because my best friend loves him and it's not right for me to have any kind of romantic feelings for him...

But my heart wants to hold on to him even when I know I'll be heartbroken soon....

What do I do???

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User Profile: Helping2findaway
Helping2findaway January 24th, 2018

@Lifelover99.. sounds like your faced with making a major choice that will affect regardless of your choice.

umm i would say trust your gut, as my advice maybe mistaken :)

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January 25th, 2018

@Helping2findAway my gut says to tell about all of this to my friend and then get together with him....

But I'm not the one for relationship... So it's better if they get together because at least then both will be happy and I won't hurt anyone majorly... Even if he gets hurt because of what I do he'll have her to turn to but she won't have anyone to turn to if I get together with him....

That's why I'm majorly confused....

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User Profile: Helping2findaway
Helping2findaway January 25th, 2018

@Lifelover99.. So sorry to hear that. Sounds like a very complicated situotion.

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January 25th, 2018

@Helping2findAway ya..... It's very complicated and I don't know what to do....

I had written some poems about how I feel about him, he took the book and went... When we were talking later, he said that I would say yes to him if my best friend didn't like him, he said he was sure about it....

When I told him I'm not the one for relationship,I have mood swings and everything, he was like even he has them so it doesn't matter...

We never spoke about it again.... He's still got my book...

I haven't spoken to him since many days because I'll start feeling even more for him and I don't want to.... I miss him a lot sometime, but I still don't call him...

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