Does this kind of things happen to u?
My class is joining a competition but their ideas just crashes with mine. I started to feel lazy to cooperate because they bluntly turned down all of my ideas. I get bored easilly and i dont feel like i want to continue this project. Of course I know this is bad, any advice how should I react in front of them so they know i am still willing to cooperate? Or how to make yourself look enjoyed ? Something to satisfy my friends?
@KANNA00
Heyy
I know it's very frustrating when you feel like your friends and class don't listen to you, shutting down all your ideas. Maybe it was just that your ideas' style doesn't quite fit what they are picturing for this project. :) I think although your ideas got turned out and as a result, it makes you not want to help out or contribute to any aspect towards the project, but sometimes that will paint a bad image for other people who value us.
I think you should voluntarily go ask about the progress of the project, chatting to the members of your class, and of course, ask them whether they need help on anything you may be able to do. Show that you are not shutting everyone in the class and this project down because they didn't decide to take your ideas. Try seem more involved and engaged in class discussion on this project for example, not being forceful of limiting people to listen to your ideas, but maybe try show that you can be a listener too :D it's nothing bad to be a leader or someone who contributes ideas, but sometimes a great project is composed by many followers and listeners of the group who's willing to do things without taking any special credit.
Someone once said: "Not a leader? It's okay. The world needs followers now.". I think it was for university application.
Best of luck!! <3 try widen your perspective and tell yourself that it's okay. you can try promote your ideas even better next time so they can't say no.
