Feeling Left out?
So I’m in a trio,I feel like the other two got got closer to each other (which is expected) but ever since then I have felt left out in our hangouts and just misunderstood. things still seem to be going bad, for me atleast. I don’t know. I just feel like they don’t like me. I just feel scared and lonely because I have no one else. I’m sort of closer to one of the two because we’ve known each other for quite a while, she does reassure me a lot which I appreciate but it’s just that their actions speak louder than words :/ it’s like when they’re together I don’t exist.
@charmingMelon8685
I am sorry you are feeling left out of your friend's relationship. that had once been closer. I can relate to what you are saying and feeling. Often times actions really do speak louder than words. Have you asked them or told them what you are feeling? What are some of the things that you all use to do that made you feel accepted and comfortable being with them? Can you pinpoint when you felt the change? Maybe some questions you could ask.
I no feeling alone or abandoned is awful, We are here to support you and are willing to chat with you about it if you so desire.
.I hope thing get better
Thank you so much, I appreciate your support! ❤️ I have talked to them before about it but they’ve just said that I should include myself, but when I try to do that I don’t know how to because it’s forced and I feel like I don’t have anything to say. This started the summer after covid so around September 2020. I’ve kind of just started accepting the fact that things aren’t like what they used to be and they might never be again, and I’ve started to focus more on myself. Thank you for all your help :)) it feels comforting to know you’re not alone
@charmingMelon8685
Thanks, You are so right, things really have changed since Covid and maybe it is time to move on and find another circle of friends. Sometimes people are not meant to stay in our life. Acceptance should not have to feel forced or unnatural