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User Profile: lily1515
lily1515 February 27th, 2018

Hello, ive been back and forth the last couple days now with a very close friend of mine. She has brought up some recent past events that I missed the opportunity to do the right thing and be there for my friend, and have fully accepted to move forward and make changes to my behavior and how I handle certain things. Ive made a list of things I need to work on like listening better to what she has to say, give her the time she gives me, offer helpful advice, be there for her, and accept she wont be happy 24/7. Is there any advice anyone has working on these issues? I want to repair my friendship with her and work towards making this better for the both of us.

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User Profile: Havingfuninthesnow
Havingfuninthesnow February 27th, 2018

@lily1515

Sounds like you have awesome goals and are a really awesome friend to notice the short comings and willing to work on them. Wish I had friends like that which cared as much as you do.

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User Profile: lily1515
lily1515 OP February 27th, 2018

@DanaMHH thank you, I appreciate that a lot it just pains me to see her going through all of this and I am going through my own things as well I try to understand there just seems to be a momentary disconnect

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User Profile: Havingfuninthesnow
Havingfuninthesnow February 27th, 2018

@lily1515

You might both want to read the book 5 love languages and discuss it. I know it really helped us.

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User Profile: lily1515
lily1515 OP February 27th, 2018

@DanaMHH I will check it out, thank you!

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User Profile: Havingfuninthesnow
Havingfuninthesnow February 27th, 2018

I need friends that actually want to chat and care about me the same way I care about them.

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User Profile: brightTree5008
brightTree5008 March 24th, 2018

@DanaMHH

I can relate. You can try and chat with me if you would like. smiley

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User Profile: Havingfuninthesnow
Havingfuninthesnow March 25th, 2018

@brightTree5008

You must be on the teen side? I did the form but they haven't processed it yet

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User Profile: brightTree5008
brightTree5008 March 29th, 2018

@DanaMHH

Not quite. smiley

But that's always been a non issue for me. Good luck, I hope things work out.

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