Friendship
so i have a bestfriend, we’ve been friends for 5 years now. I love her deeply and want the absolute best for her in life. However the pay she goes about certain stuff within our friendship bothers me at times. For example when something doesn’t suite her or if she gets annoyed by something i’ve said she’ll hang up the phone without any explanation or just abdruptly. I’ve mentioned before how this triggers me and i feel disrespected, she said she would work on it but nothing has changed because today she did it again. How do i go about things right now? She knows this doesn’t sit well with me.
@beebeexxx I'm sorry to hear that your friendship is going through a rough time. Feeling disrespected is never pleasant, and I'm glad you spoke to her about it. You may need to consider gently reminding her and over time hopefully things will get better. Setting boundaries is always a good start to protect you from being triggered. She may not realize she's hurting you, in the moment. It's good that you love her much. This will hopefully help you find a way forward.
