Hi @VanillaTea8700! It sounds u r stuck in very complicated situation there! u said, other than u like girls as well, u also want to focus on ur study right? u don't neccessarily have to tell the whole reasons.
Good luck!
@SmilingCamel55
Yeah right..! And I believe, just give yourself some time and space too to understand what exactly you wants, and what makes you happy and sad.. Secondly ,fear of something can only stop you from taking any decision ..
@VanillaTea8700
Ignore him and alarm autorities if you don't feel safe. Is better to be safe than to wonder, trust me
Also for the future reference tell your friend to not do things like that. Is not her business. I'm sure she had a good intention but things like this are quite direspectful. Also if you don't want to confront her or him about your sexuality just straight forward say "I'm not interested."
I hope things work out for you
@VanillaTea8700
Hi. I hope that you are feeling better.
You dont need to give him much information, just tell him that you are sorry but you are not interested. I would be careful with this kind of people, because sometimes they can get angry reactions, maybe mention it to a friend, and if he scares you report it inmediately to the autorities, or even the school (if you share one). Probably there is a help group in your comunity for women, if he keeps insisting you could perhaps contact them, they will help you with the situation.
Regarding your friend, I really agree with the previous comment. Explain her kindly that her gesture was well intended but not polite.
Good luck!