I feel alone in a group of friends
I have 3 ‘best friends. Them three hang out together a lot, they make plans without me and post it on social media (not in direct purpose to hurt me), but it shows me that they are hanging out together without me. They say that they want to make plans with me like to have sleepovers and stuff, but they dont. They go off together to restaurants and each others houses without me. I want to confront them but Im too scared. Im scared that I will loose friends. I feel like I just dont fit with them and if I leave, I wont find any other people who would want to talk to me.
after my best friend moved away to another country I feel like no one else relates to me or likes me as much as she did. Idk why its too much to ask to be one persons #1 best friend, for one person to like me just as much as I do them.
I just feel so lonely and helpless, like no one really understands me. I prefer my own company to others, but its weird I ca easily make new friends, I just find it hard to hold onto the old ones. I seem to drive people away and they dont want to talk to me. I feel like Im too awkward or not funny enough for them.
I just feel lonely and Im sick of being left out, without any reason
@blueidea45 thank you for sharing this here. Feeling alone and left out can be really difficult to handle and hopefully you are now feeling better :)
@blueidea45
Your are special, you are unique, you are a star. Be yourself. I hope things soon come your way.
@blueidea45
I know exactly how you feel because most of my friends just don't seem to understand me, and they always talk and makes jokes together that I don't understand, and I'm always left out.
But you should know that it will get better no matter what, and you'll find some good friends that understand you.
@blueidea45 i think its important to be yourself. You really gotta start to value yourself before anyone values you. Set boundaries, learn to say no, and be authentic. I know it sounds general as im learning how to do all those things too, but dont be afraid to speak your mind because youre afraid of losing friends. (: