I just want someone to like me
I just want to meet a friend that will stick around. Someone who is genuinely interested in being my friend and not drop off on me because they got bored or they have other friends they like better. For a long time ive been the convenient friend. I always try to be the best friend that i can be but i dont get the same in return.
@Fallenangel6811 I am Emily I would love to be your friend 💞
@Emilyvag i would really like to be friends too ❤
Aw I totally get this feeling, Angel. I know how hard it can be when you're just looking for a friend who seems to be genuinely interested in you and stick around no matter what. I'm sure you're a really good friend, and it's a bummer that people don't appreciate it or be the same for you. One thing I'm sure of is you're going to meet your kinda people soon, the ones who won't just accept you but help you grow a lot more! However it's also true that these people don't stay in our life forever but sometimes they do. I hope you meet these people soon and get to be with them for a long time. My wishes to you! Also I'd love to see you around in the rooms making friends, different support rooms can be a good start and a safe place for you to talk to people who might go through the same thing. ❤ Take care of yourself!
@Moana22 thank you for the kind words, you take care too ❤
Can relate big time. This is very prevalent. Specially with genY
@Fallenangel6811
@futurebieber i agree
i get along with everyone
@Fallenangel6811 You are suffering from a problem, with which I used to suffer some period ago, and I would advice you to pay attention to what I say here because I have already come out of this situation and know how to deal with this.
Well, the fact is, you want a friend, and your happiness depends on whether or not you have a good friend or not. You are seeking happiness in others in this world where selfishness is not only present in large amount, but also very essential to survive. You spend your energy and time in showing people how good friend you are.
Have you ever looked at yourself? Do you take care of yourself? Do you need a friend or some other person to be complete in your life?
Stop spending your time and energy over others, no one really ever cares. Instead spend that energy on yourself. Improve yourself, be more confident, be SELF-DEPENDENT. Friends are not life, they are only an add-on to your life. Start believing in yourself. Make your own life great and wonderful. Start loving yourself and your own life. No ome is real in this world. Get some cool clothes, some interesting hobbies, spend time with yourself, understand your own needs. Be a person with a standard, a class and with high goals, and focus on that goals, and not on making friends. Grab a camera and take cool pictures of yourself. Understand your potential. And eventually you will end up having a large no. of people dying to be friends with you and being with you everytime. Understand your self-worth, nobody in this world is going to stay forever expect your family. Keep your friend circle small, do not make a lot of friends and believe only in yourself. You will start loving yourself and understand your importance. Who is going to understand your worth if you yourself do not? So, just get a life , a life of quality , and work on yourself. Be your own best friend. 😊😊
@gregariousLake4824 thank you for the advice. Ill do my best to work on myself.
@Fallenangel6811 you should
@gregariousLake4824
I too am working on that. After failing so many friendships, I realized that they were never permanent. Friends are people who will help me in times of trouble, not sources of happiness and approval. I've been so absorbed in new hobbies and interests lately that I even forgot that I wanted a good friend 😆. So many people are interested in me now once I developed confidence. By working on myself instead of my relationships, they seem to have gotten better and more permanent, somehow. Good point you've made!
@rationalNectarine7195 thats awesome! Im happy for you 😀
@rationalNectarine7195
I too feel happy to find someone as the same experience as mine. I just wanted to add that one thing I have learned so far is that people may come, and they may go, sometimes when their business with you gets over and other times due to other reasons. It is you who should develop emotionally and mentally along this time because all what you own is your life which you ought to make better. Some people will remain for a long time, others would be temporary, and it is nothing to feel obessed about because 'all have to look towards their own life' . Just be such an amazing person that with whoever you be in whichever phase of your life, you make that time just memorable and get the best out of it. You will always find different people to accompany you everytime, if you are stron in yourself. 😊😊
@gregariousLake4824
That was truly beautiful ❤️
@HunterOfLies
Thanks, BTW I looked at what was your reply ro fallenangel and that was too, very perfect!