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I'm in a bit of a pickle

User Profile: whollyme
whollyme October 14th, 2022

So I have a female cousin who I am very close to, we are almost like friends more than just sisters.

She has had a male best friend for the past 4-5 years. They have always been mostly online friends and only met once or twice.

Recently I moved to the city that they both live in because of college.

Her best friend and I have never been in any relationship our whole lives. So she thought it was a good idea for all of us to get together because she wanted to be a matchmaker for us two.

And so we did. We met and liked each other and now we have been dating for almost 5 months.

But the day we met, all three of us sort of had a fall out and now she's gotten a lil distant from us. I still see her and approach her to try and do stuff we did before all of this. Also she broke up with her boyfriend around 2-3 months after we met and now she's single so I feel even more guilty about her not being as close as she was with her bestfriend before that night.

But those two barely talk anymore. They have both told me on multiple occasions it's not my fault but I keep on feeling guilty and thinking somehow it is. I don't wanna get in between them but I also don't know what to do or feel about it.


Do u think I should try to make them talk more to each or let them handle it like they want to ?


Do u think it is my fault? Should I be feeling guilty?

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User Profile: BodhisattvaKuato
BodhisattvaKuato October 15th, 2022

It is safe to say that she is distant because she doesn't want to get in between you two just as you don't want to get in between them.


This is nobody's fault. People move on from person to person. Did she dump him or did he dump her?

User Profile: whollyme
whollyme OP October 15th, 2022

She has this bad habit of not replying to texts. So 1 day she didn't text him back and since then they haven't talked to each other. I don't know why she didn't text him. And he refuses to double text her.