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User Profile: sensibleStrawberries9877
sensibleStrawberries9877 March 17th, 2020

https://www.startlivingyourway.com/blog/2018/5/29/the-power-of-surrounding-yourself-with-the-right-people

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User Profile: Flowingstreams
Flowingstreams March 18th, 2020

@sensibleStrawberries9877

Thanks so much! This was really helpful and an awesome post. It was perfect timing! I've lately been noticing how I subconsciously read other people's unverbalized wishes and expectations of me and how I tend to just do the things that I think the other person wants me to do without thinking about it consciously even... And that sometimes it's not even conscious, it's like an autopilot or something. It dawned on me lately as I was working on boundaries that I wasn't just being polite or deferential; I was continually negating my rights as an equal human being, and casting myself as a second citizen, and i was the one doing it!

The post really had me thinking who those 5 people were through different periods of my life and how it effected my identity. I think it's really interesting how some Western (often patriarchal) literary theories envision the self as solid, independent and continuous, when in actuality, my own experience has shown me that people are probably much more fluid. And the people we are around a lot, we start to ressemble! Eg. we even resemble our dogs and our dogs us! lol

Thanks for sharing! Great post!

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User Profile: sensibleStrawberries9877
sensibleStrawberries9877 OP March 18th, 2020

@Flowingstreams Interesting interpretation of yours. Glad it was useful to you.

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User Profile: Flowingstreams
Flowingstreams March 19th, 2020

@sensibleStrawberries9877

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User Profile: KeenaWCook
KeenaWCook March 19th, 2020

@sensibleStrawberries9877

Hi, thanks for sharing this great post! It's true that we are influenced by other people that surround us particularly our friends. So it's good to know who is near you and analyze what could affect you in doing wrong or right choices. I can recommend my site https://studymoose.com/child-development here I write about different interesting topics.

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User Profile: sensibleStrawberries9877
sensibleStrawberries9877 OP March 19th, 2020

@KeenaWCook I was talking more career wise.

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