Lost a pet

Hello @smolstrawberries,

It is really wonderful that you care so much about your friend and how he is dealing with his loss. I commend you for reaching out and trying to find the best way to help him.

Grief - no matter whether it is a human being or a pet - can be difficult to deal with. You probably already know that grief is a process with no right or wrong wa to deal with it. It can take a long or short time depending on the person and the circumstances of their loss. Given what you have mentioned, he will most likely have a great, trusting, supportive, and loving relationship with his support dog. They can be great companions and friends when humans are not around or seem to not understand. Dogs in general have a knack for being present and emotionally connected when we need them. I have had a friend with a service or support dog as well as being an owner of dogs myself.

I think that what you are doing is great! Sometimes, the best we are able to do is just be present with him. Being there, in person or on the phone, can help a great deal. Knowing that someone cares enough just to listen or wipe away your tears can be just what we need to help us get through this difficult time. Suggesting a support group in the area for loss of a service dog can also be of assistance. However, before suggesting anything to him, ask if he would like you to do anything first. Giving too many suggestions or things to do can suggest to the person that you are wanting them to get over the loss now as opossed to doing this in their own time.

I hope this has answered your question and that your friend finds peace during this time.

@smolstrawberries

"Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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