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My friends blame me for everything, single me out and treat me unfairly

User Profile: honestAvocado40
honestAvocado40 February 9th, 2019

We met at uni 6 months ago and from here one out Ill definitely be distancing myself from them. There have been so many incidences that have really upset me because they blame me when Ive done absolutely nothing. I tend to move on from minor issues but they use me as a scapegoat in which Im singled out and get treated poorly. For instance, it was 3am I wanted to go home and they got mad at me for wanting to go home, brought up events from months ago to throw at me and later treated me pretty nasty. I wouldnt treat any friend that way - so Im done. Even if it means being lonely.

However, my main issue is I see one of them often at uni. Im creating distance not trying to cut off completely, so how do I handle classes with her. Do I sit next to her? Still talk to her? And how do I balance things between us so no tension is noticed?

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February 10th, 2019

Hi! @honestAvocado40 I think you should explain the situation to them, i felt identify with going out and then wanting to go home because i suffer from axiety and i usually want to go places early haha but my friends know because i explain that to them.If they don t understand that then i'm sure you can fine better non judgmental people smiley Sorry for my broken english and have a nice day!

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User Profile: honestAvocado40
honestAvocado40 OP February 10th, 2019

@AnitaAnn93 hi, thank you for responding. Trust me they wouldnt care or understand if I spoke about my concerns, as Ive tried it in the past and once again Im the bad guy. One of them is a sheep who just sides with the other, the the other only cares about herself. Not being mean just being honest

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