Real Friends
Is it even possible to find real friends as an adult? When I was a kid I got along with everyone, but now coming up on 30 I realize I haven't had a real friend in over a decade. It seems like everyone is just looking for ways to use you to improve their own lives. Over the past ten years or so, I've "loaned" over $300,000 to various people I called friends (gotten none of it back of course). It seems like every person I meet ends up having the relationship degrade to them demanding money from me for various reasons until I finally try to cut them off from hurting too much, at which point I get to hear all about what a horrible, selfish, uncaring person I am for not giving them more. Heck, I even got a message the other day saying "I know you don't know me, but my cousin said you helped her and I was wondering if I could have some money." Guess it's a new low when people start asking you for money on the very first sentence they say to you. Does anyone else have problems like this? Why does it seem so impossible to find anyone who cares about me as more than just a tool to fix their problems?
@Sportster360 wrong person and maybe u r having a wrong character..
Btw For the record, If u r man, when u loan to a girl, u know that is not a loan, u give it to her..
When a man ask a woman or a girl money or something u give to her, that's look bad on ur image mate, my advice don't and tried to go out from ur community, start meeting a new person and correcting ur characters..
@Sportster360 Btw I many times paying for my best friend, but I never think to loan her.. Be pure, Just give her what u want to give her, don't loan her.. If she ask too much then don't.. She offer u a business and u see no prospect on it, if u think u fall pity on her, just give it to her what u can give, say loan to her to make her like having responsibility to success, but never think that money is a loan, think that is gone and that is the cost to keep a best friend.. Be wise.. Help them what u can as best friend but also don't kill urself by investing something beyond u when u see no prospect..
