Scared
so I have a problem opening up to people because I feel like I just put extra weight on them or I put burdens on them. I know to open up, I just get scared and anxious, then I just bottle everything up and not say a word for a long time. I want to open up to my best friend but I know he is going through stuff and it would be insensitive of me. Im just really struggling. but I don't want them to think that I don't trust them. I do trust them. I don't know what my problem is. I just don't want to seem insensitive or annoying possibly. I guess it's my insecurities and how I'm always putting people first. I just don't know how to open up to him, because I really need to rn.
@smolstrawberries
hey hon! i'm really proud of you for opening up about this! i can understand you're having a hard time making the decision, i can tell that you really care for your bestfirend and that also tells me that you are an awesome person! i can understand how u dont want to stress him but at the same time u dont want him to think that you dont trust him which isnt the case and its just that you care for him which makes you hesitate, i cant tell you if you should tell him or not, coz that would be your decision to make but what i can tell you is that he's your bestfirend and he would understand you, and if u tell him right now he wont be more stressed, he'd be glad that you confided in him and that way you both will be able to sort it out!
i hope this helped! have a good day ahead and dont hesitate to seek me out if you need to talk to me!
:))
