She likes me but pushes me away
Alright so here we gooo
im male 19 y old, we are in the same class since a couple years and we have been really good friends all that time. A couple months ago i kissed her and she kissed me back. Thing is i didnt know that so k felt akward and i didnt talk to her about it. Anyway a couple weeks ago she told me she really likes me. A week after that she send me a snap u wouldnt send a normal friend. We went on a date and then at a party. I leaned in to kiss her and she pushed me away (nobody was around). I thought she didnt want to be involved with me so the next day at school i told her we can stay friends. She started crying and ran off. After that we talked about it and she said she doesnt want to rush things. Either way she didnt talk to me after that and generally avoided/ignored me. I honestly dont know what to think and what to do right now. All I know is I want her back, and I suppose I should text her, but I dont know what to say.
thanks you guys for all ur help!
@JacobAndrew.. Hi Andrew, Sounds like your in a complicated situation.
I can relate to the girl you like abit, i have done the same to guys, however from a girl view point, maybe she's shy or scared about being in a relationship. I suggest you fellow your gut, if you want her, be open about your feelings towards her, let her know you want to be there for her :).
Good luck!
@Helping2findAway Agreed
@JacobAndrew
Well .. I can understand the complexity of your mind . Maybe she ain't ready for anything yet ...... Try talking to her about what's in her mind . Maybe there is something she wishes to tell but can't . Try being there for her in a way that she speaks out her issues with you . This might bring back the flow of your healthy relationship .
GOOD LUCK!
Love
Echo <3
@JacobAndrew
I think you ignoring the kiss and not talking about it strained u guys a bit. Girls tend to want some sort of explanation right after, it causes a ton of confusion because they think "k what r we now". You said she confirmed that she liked you! But did u confirm your feelings? Kissing doesn't confirm feelings, u gotta say it.
Tell her straightforward that you like her and want to take her out on a date (that is if u feel that way.)
@JacobAndrew
As weird as it seems it might be because she really likes you. Maybe she feels like she's not good enough, even if she is. I'm also in school and there's this guy who likes me and I like him but if he asked me out I might say no, because I am so self conscious. For you it could be that she second guesses if she's good enough and that might make her not want to be in a relationship because she might be scared of getting hurt. Okay I hope this makes sense