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This happened some weeks ago. But is still hurting me.

User Profile: FutureTeacher301
FutureTeacher301 November 29th, 2016

I met a guy. It was love at first sight. We started making a good friendship. Same tastes, same pain about the past, etc. We talked about our feelings. We decided to continue knowing us, because we wanted to try it, to someday, be a couple.

I was so happy. He was a gentleman with me. He called me a lot of cute nicknames, sweet and lovely nicknames. He used to make me feel I am a princess. We were getting more and more lovely, in confidence, we were doing the things right!

But everything changed when he had a figh with his ex girlfriend. He started to be cold. He didn't answer me with the same happiness as before, even he took hours to write me. So, a night, 3 weeks ago, he told me "I don't want nothing with nobody".

My heart is pretty broken. A lot. I was in a heaven and now I noticed this was a true lie. I think. I am not talking with him anymore, he deleted me because I didn't want to talk to him as a friend because I am so hurt. Time is passing, though, I am trying to deal it with new music, tastes, friends. But I still suffer. Who knows what is he doing now, while I am here, very bitter. :(

Any tips?

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User Profile: windflowers
windflowers December 1st, 2016

@FutureTeacher301

hey there. i'm sorry that happened to you -- breakups are always tough, and often it's hard to understand what others are thinking. however, here is a quotes that may help you: "don't cry when the sun is gone, because your tears will not allow you to see the stars." i'm sorry it's so hard to deal with, and that you're still hurting, but even though it may be tough, remember that you were fine without him before, and that you'll continue living without him :) you're strong, you're brilliant, you're unique, and i'm sorry he failed to see that. here's another quote, though -- "sometimes when things seem to be falling apart they may actually be falling into place." perhaps that'd help you? here are three links i found that may help you, too -- one, two, and three. good luck!