What should I do?
I have this friend and she is absolutely hilarious and tends for good. At least, that's what I hope. I feel that she lies aboutveryimportant things and honestly is a bad influence. She is also quite the hypocrite too. I've been wanting to tell her several things so she could either a) realize what she is doing to hurt herself and others or b) become extremely offended. What has been stopping me though is that in most situations she has openly showed me that she is very delicate and emotional. I'm not even sure if this is even true, that she is absent mindedly manipulating me to not disrespecther or leave her. I honestly don't want to hurt her because of what she could do to herself and I feel that she is a good person but we've been friends for so long and the fact that I can't trust her is ridiculous. Am I the problem? What should I do?
hey, uh, I think you should talk to her about it openly. I've been in the same situation as your friend once, and it really really hurts when your best friend to shove it in your face, but you need to do it. It took me a long time to get back together with her, but it work. Try to talk about it slowly, and keep calm, although I admit it you have to be really careful, or she might break .-.
