birthday??

this is probably not a big deal at all and kinda stupid, but I keep on overthinking it. it's my best friends birthday and I planned to do just a normal birthday post on my Instagram for them. but then I started overthinking if people will judge me if I do, if I just do whatever else does, just really getting in my head for no reason. so what is better, just doing the basic birthday story post or do an actual post? I don't want it to be too much, but also mean something