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User Profile: smolstrawberries
smolstrawberries August 30th, 2020

I hope this doesn't sound rude, I'm just kinda upset right now. so I have this friend that I've known since the end of sophomore year. And we started off close, I listened to her and we have a group chat with two other people. but lately, she only just talks about herself. and I listen like always and sound interested, because at times I am. and when I finally do talk about myself, she acts like she couldn't care less about what is happening in my life and continues talking about herself. I'm not trying to sound mean, it just continues happening and it's the reason why I hate talking about myself because I feel like I'm not good enough or what is happening in my life is not interesting enough to people. maybe I'm overthinking it, it just hurts

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User Profile: sophiasanae
sophiasanae August 30th, 2020

@smolstrawberries

Hey strawbs! I've been in a similar situation as you a few times, and I know it isn't easy! You seem like an amazing friend (seriously, anyone would be lucky to be friends with you!) and you deserve to have the same kind of respect, listening, and validation from your friend. You sound like you're always there for you friend, and when you have something to say, you should be listened to as well! Remember that anything you have to say is important and valid!

Feel free to shoot me a message if you ever need a listening ear by the way!